Incense has a way of transporting us into another world. It can elevate the mundane, turn the ordinary into the magical, and transform a simple home into a sacred sanctuary. There’s something ancient in incense — a soft, smoky wisdom that lingers long after the flame fades. Whether you burn […]
How Dining Alone at a Fancy Restaurant Helped Me Heal My Inner Child
Growing up, I didn’t go to many fancy restaurants. We didn’t dress up. We rarely did big celebrations. It was always simple—kinda thrown together. As a child, I never thought much about it. I just assumed we weren’t a “fancy” family. I remember one night—me, my sister, and my father […]
The Art of Dressing: How Getting Dressed is the Biggest Act of Self Love
When I was spiraling, the last thing I wanted to do was put together an outfit. It seemed pointless. Why do all that fussing over myself when I was “just going” somewhere? The grocery store, work, errands—it didn’t matter. I’d tell myself I didn’t care who saw me. That mindset […]
A Sweet Treat: Vanilla Ice Cream with Caramelized Bananas
Lately, I’ve been having such a huge sweet tooth. The other week, I went to the store and grabbed a few snacks, but I was especially excited because I wanted to recreate a dessert I saw on Pinterest. Even though it was just a photo, it gave me all the […]
DIY Oat Creamer with Cinnamon & Brown Sugar
There’s something about the first sip of coffee in the morning that feels like a ritual—like you’re quietly telling the day yes, I’m here and I’m ready. But I’ve noticed that store-bought creamers, while convenient, rarely give me the cozy sweetness I’m craving. They’re either too sugary, too heavy, or […]
The Dark Side of Dating: The Night My $10 Pepper Spray Saved Me
Dating in your 30s is a different field. Some people are divorced with 15 kids, others are just vibing, and some don’t seem to be looking at all. I somehow found myself in the latter category. I’m looking, but not seriously. My ideal relationship is Oprah and Stedman—I don’t want […]
The Self-Care Power of Loungewear: How Comfort Became My Mental Health Ritual
Some days, self-care doesn’t have to be a bath ritual, a meditation session, or a weekend getaway. Sometimes, it’s as simple—and as profound—as putting on the right clothes. Loungewear has quietly become one of the most underrated tools for mental wellness. The soft fabrics, gentle fits, and cozy vibes of […]
One-Pan Salmon Pasta with a Whisper of Merlot | Easy Indulgent Dinner
Today was kind of day that could only be answered with pasta. You know the ones — when everything feels long, stretched thin, and by the time you get home, your body wants to melt into the couch. I almost talked myself into ordering takeout, but I didn’t just want […]
The Pleasure Pantry – stocking indulgent but everyday items
My kitchen has quickly become one of my favorite rooms in my home. I treat it like my personal bistro. Softly lit with warm light and low music, I’m instantly transported to another world. The mood itself inspires me to cook. I was never a huge cook growing up, but […]
Why I’ll Always Have Champagne in My Fridge (Even if My Bank Account Disagrees) – a manifesto for everyday decadence.
It seems like I’m always being pulled in different directions with no end in sight. Between work, my blog, being a dog mom, and maintaining friendships, it’s a lot. I often feel lost in a sea of chaos and overachievement, forgetting to notice—or create—moments of beauty. When I first moved […]